dear reubenpa, going out of syracuse you take 690 west to the baldwinsville exit. go down the ramp and bear right onto 370 west. from there you keep going, you will pass through the towns of meridian and cato. about 3 miles out of cato you will see a flashing light and the sign for fair haven state park go right and follow that road to fair haven. from the thurway get off at the weedsport exit.go left back over the thruway bridge[ you will be on 34 north] and follow that road into cato. at that light in cato, turn left and follow the road [ its 370west] to the flashing light in victory. its about 3 miles out of cato, you cant miss it. turn right and follow the signs to fair haven , youll will be on 38 north. i hope this helps you find fair haven.